Humans are different
28, Nov 2008 03:31
What i've came across these days were to understand people in a different way. Everybody come from a different family. And it will automatically build a different brought up. So, A FAMILY BROUGHT UP DETERMINE YOUR CHARACTER. For example, if you are the only daughter in your family, you will ofcourse been pampered by your parents. What you demand, they will supply. They will listen to you, giving you full attention with love and all in all because they have the only you. So, they develope you in this way, eventually, your world have no other strangers until you meet your friends or relatives.
The word "share" is not in your mind, because you don't use to share when you were young. So, character of selfishness and inconsiderate slowly develope in you. When you are in your schooling days, you tend to be alone or you will develope a strong gang that is very united among friends, Or, if you enjoy the feeling of sharing with friends, you will be in the other way of very friendly to others because you are alone all the while.
Anyhow, your brought up still determine your character. It affects your life. You may not understand yourself until you meet your enemy and good friends. Slowly, you are mould to be a better person.
These days, i personally felt that to understand a person is not an easy job at all. Again, all the while i know this fact, but until it truely crash in my life, and now i know, i feel, i see, i listen, and everything trying to understand with all my senses. To understand a person's reaction, words, thoughts, expressions and lots of things, it needs TIME. Even a husband and wife may quarrel over a new thing that enters to their life eventhough they have been married for 30years.
There are types to understand people. You might just need to understand your boss on his style of working and dealing things;Or Understand the character of your subordinates while you give a job to them. "A SUITABLE JOB FOR A SUITABLE PERSON, WILL GIVE YOU A RETURN OF A SUITABLE RESULT." Some, you might need not to understand them well because they are not close to you. Thus, the matter of "HOW CLOSE YOU ARE WITH THE PERSON, DETERMINE THE LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING"
Humans are special with differences. So, if you got a good friend or even the people who are very close to you, do write down their specialties. And if you have a partner, do let them know their specialties, i think this is a very good way to cheer them up and they will appreciate it much.
Please don't tell your partner that : you are nothing so special about, i think it's almost the same with other girls/boys that i've met, just that the outlook appearance is different, hmm.. i can't think of any, just please don't ask me anymore.'
If you said this....just wait for a sentence : you've got FIRED!! and you shall be fried! hahaha :D
All the best in life guys!!
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