whenever they are having functions or gathering, i got informed. whenever they are having happy moments like parties or weddings, i'm involved. ofcourse, glad to hear from frens that share with me their problems or their unhappy moments. a fren should be there whenever frens are in good or bad conditions. if you were called by a fren and they are sharing over their personal problems or just asking u for a drink when they are down, i think u r carrying yourself in a good way of fren, only they can thought of you when they are in their hard moments. appreciate your frens surrounding you. you might need their ears, advice, or some other help one day.